The clitoris: women’s pleasure
The clitoris is the most sensitive organ in a woman’s body and currently its only known function is to provide sexual pleasure. Although it may seem that it is only the small nervous protuberance visible under its cap in the upper part of the vulva – the glans – its structure actually extends inside the body and the reproductive organs of the woman, surrounding the labia majora of the vulva, the perineum and the lower part of the vagina.
As we can see, it is an area that must be delicately stimulated, since its sensitivity is enormous – for good and for bad. From Santai Masajes we are going to give you some advices to massage and stimulate it with your hands the right way. Keep this in mind when talking about erotic massages or preparing to give them yourself.
Less is more
Being such a sensitive organ, direct stimulation is never a good idea. The clitoris – like the penis – is filled with blood and becomes erect when the woman is excited, moment from which we can start to stimulate it keeping in mind that we should not do it directly until the girl is already excited or about to reach orgasm.
Also for direct stimulation is very important to use some lubricant -be sure that is a water-based lubricant if you’re going to use condoms later- to touch it directly.
Another option is to moisten your fingers with saliva or use your partner’s own vaginal flow as a lubricant (in fact, the vaginal flow is precisely the lubricant used by the woman’s body to promote clitoral function).
Since the clitoris extends internally all around the vagina and the inside of the vulva, it is a good idea to start massaging the entire area around the vulva. Start by gently caressing the lower abdominal area, where her ovaries are; you can also stroke the groin and the area around the vulva, exerting light pressure as you move along the outer part of the labia majora.
Only after the girl has become excited can you touch the glans of the clitoris directly, but remember to always do so with wet fingers.
Stimulating the clitoris
When it comes to directly stimulating the clitoris there are many variants of movements that can be used and that will provide more or less pleasure according to the tastes of the girl herself.
You can go around the glans of the clitoris in circles by sliding your fingertip over the cap. Another option is to place your finger on the clitoris and vary the pressure as if you were pressing a key on a keyboard.
Another very good technique is to place the clitoris between two fingers, as if you wanted to trap it between them, and move them from side to side. All these techniques of direct stimulation remember that they can only be used when the girl is already excited and on the way to orgasm.
At this point you can also use the other hand to stimulate the upper internal part of the vagina, the female G-spot, about 3 or 4 centimeters from the entrance, combining this movement with the stimulation of the glans of the clitoris.